Couples see economy as a time to rethink things

Isn't it interesting how it takes a tragedy or a challenge in our life to make us rethink a few things. Turn on the news and just about every night there is a story about how bad the economy is and right behind it is a story about how you can, "Tighten your belt" or other tips on how to get through this tough time. Because of the economic struggle many are facing, there is a trend to get back to basics and re-think what is important or necessary in our lives. The quick rash decision making when it comes to money has given way to more planning and better money management. That same trend is showing itself in another area as well; divorce.

Recently the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML) conducted a survey and found that 37% of AAML members said they typically see a decrease in the number of divorce cases during national economic downturns, 19% experienced an increase.

Gary Nickelson, president of AAML says, "Many individuals tend to employ a wait-and-see strategy during a troubled marriage and are very well prepared when it comes time to file for divorce. A sudden drop in net worth can effectively postpone this final decision from being made."

So basically, because it doesn't make good financial sense right now, people are forced to re-think this devastating decision. It's a bit sad that money is the reason people are forced to do this, yet also a blessing in disguise for many who take the opportunity to find their desire for one another again.